The Very Best of Christmases
As part of Volunteer Week, we’re sharing real stories that capture the heart of volunteering across Aberdeen Foyer. One story, in particular, stands out — a reflection from a volunteer who spent part of Christmas Day at Marywell Centre Aberdeen, where a hot meal and genuine companionship are offered to those who might otherwise be alone during the holidays.
Mario’s story
I first heard about the opportunity to volunteer on Christmas Day through the Port of Aberdeen Communications Team, and I’m really glad I took part. Being far from home during the holidays can be a bit challenging, so having the chance to do something meaningful for others really made the day special.
Spending the day helping serve meals at Aberdeen Foyer was such a heart-warming experience. Everyone was so kind and welcoming, and it felt great to be part of something that brought a bit of joy to others on what can be a difficult day for many.
After the meal, we played games and even did some karaoke. It was a joyful atmosphere full of laughter and connection.
Later that evening, I joined some friends for Christmas dinner, carrying with me a real sense of fulfilment. It felt so rewarding to know I’d spent part of the day giving my time to others and, hopefully, bringing a few smiles along the way.
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It has been my great privilege to have spent brief periods of Christmas Day in both 2022 and 2024 at the Vinery in Banff where a hot Christmas meal is provided to those who might otherwise be spending the day alone.
My first intentions were to go and volunteer to work, to help out in any way I could, prepping, cooking or serving. In the event, I was firmly invited to just go sit and talk. As a local Councillor, that was not a difficult ask, although of course I never mentioned the day job.
But those meals, like many others of course, become that vehicle by which we sit around that same table for the very best of purposes; talking, learning about each other and sharing life stories as we ‘broke bread’.
On those Christmas days in particular, it reinforces the common humanity that can so easily be lost, especially for those who are struggling at that time and on that difficult day for so many.
I have frequently mentioned to others that those experiences were the very best of Christmases that I have enjoyed.
To spend part of Christmas with people you have not met before and end up discussing and listening to their feelings, talking about our life’s challenges and hopes, is both profound and inspiring. In a very primitive way, I discovered on that day of all days, an openness to share in every sense, our own version of the human experience. It contained laughter as well as regret. Albeit in different ways, you become aware of common themes, or connections.
The meal and setting were a truly great leveller and that seemed fitting for the time of year. To listen to others with their own stories is very powerful, not least when the person you are listening to has not had an easy ride. It can be a very humbling experience and provided opportunities to help. So many thanks to the staff and volunteers who gave up their time to make such a difference to others at the Vinery. Those memories can last a lifetime.
Frank:
I volunteer here at The Vinery because I want to help people. I help people with their mental health. I want people to know there are folk here to talk to confidentially. I am available to walk one-to-one with people offering friendship and an ear. I am on the Coffee n Cake Team, and I get a lot of enjoyment seeing people come together and looking happy. My volunteering gives me routine and gets me out of the house. Lesley says I am a HUGE part of The Vinery Family.
Rebecca:
To help the community. At the end of the day, I feel like I’ve done something positive with my time. I run the Deveron Gamers sessions here at The Vinery. I have made some very good friends but keeping them under control is sometimes a challenge. We have our supper together as well as playing games. I always like to help at events if I’m available as it’s something different. Since I’ve been coming here, I’ve gained confidence and now volunteer at Banff Castle and play with Banff Castle Pipe Band. Just last weekend we were away to Edinburgh for The Tartan Parade.
Jonathan:
I like to help people. It’s good for my wellbeing. It’s good for me to get out of the house and be with other people. The trips out and about have taken me out of my comfort zone, but it’s been good.